SM, A few people in your posts have asked for a "what happened" update and I can't find it if you did one. If you have time, can you synopsize your story? In particular, what did you do right and wrong? What were the ups and downs. You mentioned staying a "friend" seemed to make the difference. Sandi says it usually takes the WW facing serious loss. As things turned around, what happened? Was it the A ended and you looked like the better option? Did you draw her back by truly GAL? And your W, now looking back, could sure be a wealth of info. What does SHE say worked and didn't work? What made her come back to the marriage?
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
