I am sorry Rouky. I will never understand how someone can leave their kids like this. At least he is getting her a present, that is something. They say kids are resilient, I try not to listen because I so much don't want to be divorced, but the truth is that the kids can be ok if they have at least one parent who is giving them the stability and nurturing that they need. I am sorry for your situation, I truly wish for you some peace this Christmas.