Hey Vise I don't think it is bad that you don't put them away. It's part of what makes you, you. But I also understand making compromises in a marriage. Here's what I often struggled with figuring out for myself. Do I put my shoes away because I love her, I want her to be happy and she likes it that way? Or do I do it so she doesn't get mad. I was never able to figure it out. I think some of it has to do with my conflict avoidance behaviors and her anger issues. The middle ground was hard to determine.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
