He is gay. Is it no different then my W talking to her best friend girlfriend? The problem is W and I relationship, she is giving him her best and me the rest. I have put pressure on her in the summer about it but with being separated I am surprised she listens to me. That pressure has caused them to back off each other. During a wedding she went to, the focus was off the gay guy and onto OM. Even though the gay OM is not ideal at least it can go anywhere and any lusting is one sided. I have read texts that said she wished he wasn't gay.
But like what is said on this forum actions peak louder then words and from what I know W has not acted on any of her lusting of OM. This is why I feel better that he is gay. I hope that makes sense.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
