Sounds like your DB coach was right on, and she temp checked you this morning.

I'd ignore the second question she gave you, and send the tax returns you find to her in the mail.

BTW, my wife said the same things when we talked, and she was still in her EA - just didn't know what to do - her head said one thing, and her heart was pulling her in the wrong direction. Thank God my wife's head seemed to have won out, but after almost 2 months, she's still in the fog. This will continue to be painful for you - when you see her it's like someone sticking their finger into an open wound. Your focus needs to be on other things than her. Tough lesson I've learned in the last month.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)