We went out last night, and met at a place we've always went to in the past. She did a lot of talking about how things have been for her, I just listened and validated. I had a coaching session with my coach, yesterday afternoon to get her take on what I should do. She convinced me that some of the actions and signs my W has been giving me suggests that my W is not done with me. She doesn't know what she really wants, but not done, so, there was some hope there.
We talked about a lot of things, I talked about the coming months with my mother preparing to buy a home and move to Dallas, and helping her out with that. We small talked. We had some relationship talk a little bit. I told her about the things that I'm working on for myself to become better, she talked about the challenges of living on her own, and not really having any friends, and just sitting at home all the time. It wasn't a bad experience.
At the end, she said that she wasn't in a place where she could decide what she wanted with us, that she didn't want to make any promises, or for me to get my hopes up. I told her I can accept her thoughts, and be okay with that. I didn't bring up the A or anything, as my coach told me if I really wanted to give NO chance to reconciliation, then I should do that and continue to be cold to her. So, I decided against it. We said our goodnights and went home.
This morning she texted me to see if I found the tax returns from last year yet, and also to see if I was feeling okay.
That's about all I have to report for now.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15
