Hi Bright, I'm glad you decided to go. I understand why you'd want to "see what changed", (if anything) and don't blame you one bit.

Hopes and expectations? Pretty normal to have them, I always did. (and still do!) Honestly it's what has helped keep me keep going. If things don't turn out how we had hoped, it doesn't mean we have to crash and burn... we back up and regroup/rethink the situation. Alter our plan. You're strong enough to do this.

I have expectations wink that you will have a great time, and might learn a thing or two regarding H. smile

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl