I couldn't find my old post to link but long story short my w is in the throws of a mlc after the death of a friend a few months ago.
I've read DB and have been doing ok with everything until last night. I lost almost all my tools. We are supposed to travel to her step family's for the holiday and leave tomorrow and last night she tells me she set up a mediation appt for when we get back. So now I'm supposed to go act like everything is fine and come home to that or ruin christmas for my 5 & 7 yo. I really want to tell her I'm staying home w kids and let her tell her family why she's showing up alone but that's not fair to my kids idk what to do.
