No R talks. No 'truths' that involve showing you're hurt or needy. Don't take the bait or fall for the temp checks.
If she cared even a teeeeeeeeny bit how you felt she wouldn't be treating you this way. She's done, and she doesn't care. It's all about alleviating her guilt, keeping you under her manipulation, etc.
WW's need to be punted. By all means DB, work on yourself, set goals, do 180s, etc. But when in WW status they are pretty much possessed by the devil. Given prior remorseless EA's and her excuses of blaming you she's likely meeting her needs elsewhere.
Until that changes you deserve much, much better. And I don't know if it will change. Ug. I find this so disgusting.
That said, back to focusing on you. Where did you go wrong in the M, and what are your goals for you in the future?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
