He just left. He's filing for divorce over the holidays. He needs it to move on. Has to take practical step to leave this toxic, co-dependent relationship. Our financial situation is bad bad bad. I made it clear though that I'm not quite ready to leave the US, there are some things I want myself and D to do that can't be done in the next month. Hopefully we can find a way to extend my time here a bit. He did also mention he's curious to see where things could go with OW. Not even sure I care anymore. The past 12 years have been terrible, we've worn each other out, me more so than him. I so understand him. I wish I could blame him. But he's right. And he has moved on. Now if only I could do the same.
