Rouky, I am just catching up on your situation now. I have a hard time keeping up with all the different posters, so I am sorry I haven't caught up with you until now. I understand how you feel about cleaning up his mess. But your children are too young to hear about OW. I wouldn't say much except to repeat "I love you, and your Dad loves you, but we are living separately now." I am going to catch up more on your story before I comment any more.