Just reporting back interaction with H today after Saturday night encounter! Was glad to be on the phone when he came so the kids had to open the door for him. The rest of the evening was fine. I didn't speak to him much as I carried on doing what I have been doing for the last few months.
I noticed though that he didn't seem that happy, but then again he was out on Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights, so I guess he was tired!
I think my hope of saving my marriage is fading by the day.
My youngest daughter for the last couple of weeks keeps telling me that her dad loves me and that next Christmas or the in the next 3/4 years he'll be back. I keep telling her that he doesn't love me. If he was he'd be back home now and that he lives with someone. I also asked her to ask her dad. I really don't know what to do! I don't want to tell them the real reason because it's Christmas and I don't want to ruin their Christmas.
I don't like the fact that once more I'm the one supposed to clean his mess! Why can't he be honest and tell them that he is gone because of the OW! I don't know what to do, any advice
