Because, I'm desperately pursuing my WAS like a fool.
Dont be hard on yourself. I know I can be a little blunt. But I think its the most effective way to communicate.
On the plus side, you can see this now. So how can you stop the pursuing? Its important to be honest with yourself as to why you make a decision.
- Youre giving her money so she might like you again. If so, thats not going to help. - Youre giving her money that the kids need for school supplies, etc. If so, thats good.
Originally Posted By: Bfice3
We don't have a formal separation agreement. I pay for my bills in the apartment. I pay for the kids health insurance. We split the cell phone, and car insurance. I get the kids 3 days a week.
That's been our verbal agreement thus far.
Id recommend seeing a lawyer at least initially to run this stuff by him. Sounds to me like shes making out in this arrangement, but I dont really know. A lawyer can at least let you know if this is fair.
