yes you are correct about the one year. We signed separation agreement as of Nov 1.

as I do more reading around here and the other areas I believe even though my W is in her early 30's she is more of a MLC'er. She has said many times that she wants to put her kids first and then herself. I know she feels she missed out on things in life.

She fills her life with plenty of distractions and always on the go. What i have noticed is that she has not made an effort at a career or anything further. She is relying on the support i give her and the savings we split. With her bills that will not last.

Oh well, i need to find a way to just really let go and stop faking.

Fo, it is crazy how many people just give up these days. I dont get it.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15