October 11

[Bfice3]

I feel like my marriage counselor might say that my W the engineer is simply being efficient at wanting me to meet her at the oil change place to discuss finances. And I feel like I'm being overly emotional at feeling hurt that she wouldn't make some kind of time to meet me just for that reason alone.

I'm so confused on how to do this.

Should I text her back, and say something like if the finances were really a priority problem we need to do it more formally or something? Neither of us really want to get lawyers involved.