Fo, your son is awesome. So is your singing. If anything the wine opened your ears so you could hear yourself the way everyone else does. Your voice was the same either way. But I'm OK playing loud while you find your confident inner voice.
With the phone my plan was to cover my weakness in feigned strength. She grudgingly agreed that I could look at her phone any time as long as I let her know. I have yet to call her bluff (that's what I assume it was). The idea is that next time I want to look I tell her and do it in front of her.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou