WW is onboard with trying to save the M

[JGuy]

One more piece of context I forgot to mention... before my W left for work this morning, she said that after our talk last night she texted the OM to let him know that it was a mistake that she chose to stay in contact with him at all. She apologized for the mess but told him she couldn't be in touch anymore. She said that he apologized too and agreed it was probably a bad idea to stay in touch. As she told me this, she was visibly distant and cold toward me. Huffy... as though she was angry at me for being the reason why she was losing him.

It seems really immature and self-centered the way that she gets huffy and angry at me for a choice that she is free to make. In the face of me setting a limit to what I can endure, she just goes straight to feeling like I am controlling her. It's as though she can't fathom that I have a right to set limits so that I'm not completely trampled by her reckless behavior and choices.

Anyhow, when she got huffy I didn't react, but told her that if she wanted another chance, there was more we needed to talk about. She said we could talk later this afternoon when she gets home.

I'd like to get really clear about my intentions today. I want to handle this crossroads the best way I possibly can...