W responded to my text about hearing her concerns about finances. She agreed to let me meet her early in the morning when she drops of her car to get an oil change wednesday morning.

Any tips?

I mainly want to make sure that she knows I'm willing to give her money to make sure that everything is paid for. Not a loan. Just want to make sure everything is covered.

Me:41 - LBH in apt
W:39 - WW in home
Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42
M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15
(PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)