I know that yesterday, if she paid any attention to me at all during the tourney, then she saw me talking to tons of people. Some from our school, and some from our boys all star team that was at another school. I enjoyed catching up with these parents. Seeing their new babies, etc. One of W closest mom friends came and sat with me and talked.
W overheard us dads talking about joining an old man league. I'm sure that caught her off guard, since I am more of a homebody. But, I need to get out more now, since all my hobbies were at the other house.
When you can do all of this without wondering whether W is paying any attention to you, you will be able to find the middle ground.
