Ah yes, the old we're just friends now line. I don't want to hurt him or I'm scared he will go nuts crap. I remember that like it was yesterday. Another Chance to go NC? Sure if you openly get access to every possible form of contact she could have. If she hesitates or gives you the you're invading my privacy line you have your answer to her intentions.
Now is the time for you to take a firm stand in my opinion. Gain some real respect back from her. You cant make her stop, but a line in the sand has to be drawn as to what you will tolerate. Only you can decide what to do from there if the line is crossed.
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