Did I think I would be living like this last December? No. Did I think I could cope? No, but I am. And if nothing else, that's an achievement!
Yes, it is an achievement in the face of adversity but you emerged from it stronger and more in control of yourself. And that's the secrete to all of this I think.
I never in a million years thought I'd be in this position either. I keep getting time hops from as little as two years ago and man, it was a different world back then. For me it all went wrong so quickly. For my ExW I'm not sure. At BD she said she had been feeling that way for a number of years but if that were true she hid it well, really well.
Anyway I'm not hear to talk about me or my sitch. Just to drop in and say well done mate. Keep it up.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.