That you wont live in an open M while she continues to have an A. Although since shes not said D yet I would be careful and not threaten it. The things you said before are your positions on the situation but wrap it up in a much smaller comment that gets your point across better.
For those of us who are threatened with D its something similar like "I don't believe in D and I'm still willing to do the work to fix this, but if D is what you want I will not stand in your way".
Whatever your position on this situation is. Its not a point of argument or a threat or to get a reaction from her, its just where you stand.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
