I'm trying my best to leave her be, just gets hard when dealing with two young children and all of the running around picking up and dropping off. W and I have been working well together with this for the most part. She has joined a few of these Facebook singles groups in our area and has picked up a new group of "friends" along with it. She went to a Christmas party last night with them. She came out to the house this morning to go last minute shopping with me, she looked dead tired and very depressed. We went ahead and did some shopping and came home to watch the football game, she slept for the whole three hours.
We discussed me taking a new job and the logistics of the kids. She didn't seem very happy about my decision to go back to work. She doesn't know what she wants. I told her I was doing this to protect the kids and to be able to keep the house should we not be able to work things out. I believe she is still trying to hold on to the M for her own security. She just started a new job and has us all on her insurance. She still talks about the future as if we will R yet she is adamant that she doesn't want to work on our R right now because she's having fun. To me it looks like she is running herself ragged trying to keep up like a twenty year old single party girl and it's catching up with her.
It must be exhausting in the head of the WW.
On a brighter note, the kids are out of school for Christmas break and I will have a couple days off to do some fun activities with them. I'm thinking zoo and a couple museums.
Thank you to everyone who has been keeping up and offering advice on my sitch. I'm still a bit reluctant to offer too much of my own yet but I'm starting to warm up.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15
