After sharing my life for nearly nine moths on here, I think it's time for a little break. I will keep looking in on everybody, but I won't be updating as much as before.

So, here's where we're at. I am GAL'ing as much as possible and have now booked a holiday to Hong Kong in March. I've always dreamed of going, so I am.

My W has asked if she can spend Christmas Day at my flat. I've said yes, but have no expectations. I don't know if she's finally feeling loss, or the reality of her temporary accommodation being a sh1thole, and she doesn't want to stay there. The kids have been spending a lot of time here, which is good.

My SD has been struggling with the situation, and gets upset when she has to leave my flat. W's mother and sister are here for a few days.

Did I think I would be living like this last December? No. Did I think I could cope? No, but I am. And if nothing else, that's an achievement!


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015