Originally Posted By: Zues126
Just realize guys, the 37 rules were aimed at LBS's. WAS's would get much different advice as they would have much different problems. Instead of 'how do I save my M', they are facing 'how can I live in this M'. Either way the path lies inwards, but they would not be told to use LRT.


Yes, Zues, but our WAH's are not on here yet, and by the time they end up here it will be because Julie and I are heading out the door and moving on with our lives. So at that point they will be the LBS. For my H, his EA is over, so he will come across as "a couple of years ago I had a brief EA but it was really so minor and my W never got over it." I went to IC and we went to MC for a whole year and I worked so hard on myself (BS) and now that my W finally found a job and is financially independent she doesn't even want to look at me, all she wants to do is talk to some guy named Zues online." See what I mean? The tables will change, BUT not really because of the history.


BD 2/15
separation 1/16
formerly Pho or Fo