Hi Lou. Congratulations on your job contract. I am glad to see you made a choice for YOU. Good job.

I think the fact that your H has stated he wants to work things out and is actually showing that effort by getting his IC help, changes the dynamics of him wanting to spend the holidays together. Same with the extra contact. I don't see that as cake eating, I see it as part of the process. Enjoy it, try not to think of it as anything different then what it is.

Happy to hear your update, you sound good smile


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-