I think I am going to sleep a lot better when H is out of the house, it is so distracting having him next to me. I also feel like such a loser that I am a woman with this problem. H has been wearing multiple layers of clothing to bed, including a winter jacket and hat. I think he has a physical problem going on as well as the obvious other issues. He used to always run hot, and walk around in shorts and a t-shirt while I had a sweatshirt and was still cold. Now he is always freezing. Always tired too, he used to get by on 4 hours of sleep a night, and he is always in pain. It's like the last year has aged him 10 years.
H is an "advanced beginner" on the guitar. My goal is to practice a lot and be better than he is when he returns. I guess that isn't in the spirit of dropping the rope.
Fo, I sleep better on my own too without any distractions. But some company really wouldnt hurt at this time.
Seriously, I didn't know that real couples spoon to sleep. Even when on the same bed, the X and I always kept to our sides of the bed. Anyway, he was such a violent sleeper, I was more than happy for it to stay that way.
Now I know what I have been missing. All these years and he's never spooned me.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
I used to play guitar all the time. I miss it. I've still got my lovely Ovation, that I saved for forever, just sitting in its' case beckoning me to come play again. Once I get situated in my new place, whenever and wherever that will wind up being, I think that is the first of my old joys that I am going to revisit.
Only thing is I'm not looking forward to rebuilding those calluses! Ouch! I've gone down this road before. Playing, not playing, playing, not playing - so the lovely pain of building the necessary calluses is one I remember with dread! I suppose the trick will be to NOT stop playing this time, right?
We can all meet somewhere when we're up to par, and play around a campfire...what fun that would be!
He needs a physical - including thyroid bloodwork. Temperature changes like that are typical for thyroid problems.
Painter, I have been telling him that for a year. That is our daughter's problem too, which makes it even more likely because she didn't get it from me. He will not listen to me.
I suppose the trick will be to NOT stop playing this time, right?
Right!
Originally Posted By: Ancaire
We can all meet somewhere when we're up to par, and play around a campfire...what fun that would be!
Count me in everyone learn Good Riddance by Green Day ok! Pretty simple song even for beginners. Or we could stick to the ultimate beginner song Smoke on the Water.
M30 - W29 - S1.5 EA/PA Confirmed - Oct 30, 2015 Confronted W about the A - Nov 1, 2015 W asked for seperation - Nov 22, 2015 W moves out of house - Jan 3rd, 2016
Count me in too! Although I can't even play one chord yet, the guitar is hidden away for Christmas. I will start practicing on Christmas, have to catch up with the DB guitar club.
You've got time. I'm not kidding about dreading the rebuilding of the calluses. Since I've done it so many times now, I know what I'm talking about. LOL
Lovely. A new DB club. When Mutatio sets up his lovely home in the mountains, we can form a traveling troupe and go entertain him!
