Bea, I am so glad to see you came back for a visit. I do hope that your holidays are full of fun and laughter w/family and friends.
Your posting is 100% spot on and I couldn't agree more w/what you posted.
Happy Holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.