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Hi focus22. It sounds like you are starting to get some clarity about your marriage. It's painful when we learn that the reality becomes clear in that how we saw a person was untrue. It is probably where the saying "love is blind" comes from. You will reach the conclusion that the behavior of your husband has nothing to do with you and is totally something that he has created in his mind. He must however travel this path and until it runs it's course he will be trapped in the fog. Your job is to make sure that you get out of the way of the train wreck. While you will be injured by the accident you will survive and you will be more wise and skillful going forward.

Thinking of you and wishing you a Merry Christmas. Keep up with GAL and keep us all informed of all of your fun activities!