Hi Tfish - memory problems in general are typical throughout MLC/the fog. They don't really remember a lot of what they say; not that this makes it easy to forget what you have heard. In fact, sometimes they say the most outlandish things and don't recall them even minutes later.
As for the rest of your H's kind offers, Job would tell you that your H does nice things for you because he probably did not receive enough praise as a child. Say thank you and accept help where you want it. But don't fall into the trap of thinking that there is greater meaning behind all of this. In fact, sometimes they do things because they have pangs of guilt.
Your H is all emotion now, just like a teenager or child, depending on how far back he goes.
It is crazy to watch it unfold before your very own eyes. It is shocking. Keep the lens on you and your kids.
Take care of you and your kids.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
