Thank you. I really think I can do it on my own if I move to a smaller place in august. I plan on buying a house if I can keep steady. My H is a bit hysterical...he cannot remember anything ..we asked him 4 x to make sure he had the boys home early..he swears he doesn't remember... I had a chat with him about him telling my sister..he was annoyed that the kids only talk with him for 30 seconds and they put me on...I told him he can always text me and I can have them call him without me being involved...he said it was a misunderstanding...then he left at the same time I was leaving...he called me while I was at walmart and asked if I wanted him to fill my gas tank????????UMMMMM???? I just can't read that man he is all over the place...These 2 weeks will let me detach...I need the space OMG and some mental sanity