I dont think she is staying at the shelter anymore. I think she only lived there for 5 weeks because around the 6th week when she got a job i saw her truck at her moms 2 nights in a row and i know in the shelter they dont let you stay anywhere else they are pretty strict. But i could be wrong because i havent seen her truck at her moms anymore at night so right now i am clueless as to where she is staying.
I dont have any family member that talks to her unfortunately. All her family i have cut off specially her mom the only person i actually trusted. I cut her off when i found out she phone recorded me after i told her i followed her daughter to the shelter 3 months ago when i didnt know where she had gone to live with my daughters.
I did talk to my L about everything you mentioned painter , about the cooperating classes/ parental evaluation and req her anger management classes too.
Ever since she left i have deposited checks to her bank account. I calculated my child support based of my gross income. I have never missed a week and i have kept all my receipts. Hopefully i get they can also grant me back-time and get my daughters even more. Late christmas sounds great! i know my daughters will enjoy it, more gifts for them. It's just so hard to see all the time i have missed from them. The last time i saw my 9 month daughter she was learning how to crawl barely! I just recently saw a photo she uploaded and my baby is already standing, that broke my heart. Thanks for following up with me painter! Hope youre doing good!
even after all this mess, my wounded heart is still open for forgiveness and reconciliation . Weird how ive been programmed. Seems like the word masochist describes me pretty good.
