Isn't it surprising the clarity we get in some moments? You're right; someone on a higher plane wouldn't need to point that out or even bring up reconciliation if it wasn't on the table. I think maybe she was temperature taking? Seeing what you would do.
The holidays are naturally hard for any of us. I would encourage you to focus on Woofie and yourself.
Wish I could give you a hug back,
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