Hey All, its been a busy busy week with Christmas fast approaching. Sorry i havent had much time to post. My wife has been leaving me with S1 all week while she goes galavanting with OM. Im geting tired ck this feeling of being stuck in limbo. She continually lies and disrespects me. She says were seperated yet i continue to pay all the bills and we have made no attempt to make arangments for a schedule or anything with regards to time with S1. I been chatting quite alot with 2 of her good freinds that have been trying realy hard to push her out of her fog. They are encouraging me to talk to her. I guess my question i have for everyone is should i make a stand here and tell w im tiered of being lied to and disreapected. I want to tell her she needs to pull her weight when it comes to household bills if she wants to continue living under this roof. I want tell her im tierd of taking things one day at a time i need to move forward with my life with or without you.

On another note on of her freinds found out from one of our convos that w was lying about who she went to an event with tonight and she called my w out. My wife now texted me saying she doesnt apreciate me checking up on her and that she doesnt text my freinds asking about me. I want to respond by saying i dont apreciate being lied to and disrespected. What should i do?

On a possative note i signes S1 and I up for swimming lessons. smile


M30 - W29 - S1.5
EA/PA Confirmed - Oct 30, 2015
Confronted W about the A - Nov 1, 2015
W asked for seperation - Nov 22, 2015
W moves out of house - Jan 3rd, 2016