I think I am going to sleep a lot better when H is out of the house, it is so distracting having him next to me. I also feel like such a loser that I am a woman with this problem. H has been wearing multiple layers of clothing to bed, including a winter jacket and hat. I think he has a physical problem going on as well as the obvious other issues. He used to always run hot, and walk around in shorts and a t-shirt while I had a sweatshirt and was still cold. Now he is always freezing. Always tired too, he used to get by on 4 hours of sleep a night, and he is always in pain. It's like the last year has aged him 10 years.
H is an "advanced beginner" on the guitar. My goal is to practice a lot and be better than he is when he returns. I guess that isn't in the spirit of dropping the rope.