FIL is deteriorating every day - it's like he has given up living since his terminal diagnosis on Thursday - he could die anyday. His family are trying to get him into a hospice asap.
Xmas is going to be fraught.
W is still going out tonight and has even bought waterproof mascara as she anticipates her emotions after a few glasses of wine. It's typical of her organisation. She is going to get pissed, probably cry, and therefore needs waterproof mascara!!
She is hardly reaching out to me for support. If I offer a hug, she says no as she is trying to hold it together. She said she is sorry if I feel she is freezing me out but she is just trying t hold it together. I said I understood.
I guess I just need to be there for support and if she wants to hug me. No more me offering hugs.
Last edited by isittoolate; 12/19/1506:31 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
