Pink's journey - living with pain

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Pink

I have stayed silent

Here is what I see

1. TauC (OW1) has moved on, kept XWH dangling during October, November and lost interest
2. TauC has better prospects than your XWH probably in Iceland or NZ or even en her own H
3. However she would if needs be dangle again
4. XWH feels guilty and lost
5. XWH is a mess at work, may lose job as has lost focus, direction and is distracted, employers don't like it
6. Is D
7. His XW has stopped enabling and he no longer lives at home

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He is lost cira, until he says Pink, I want you not TauC, however XWH wants TauC and hangs on to his addiction to TauC

I will no longer lie to you Pink says xWH, that's not the position if TauC came back then xWH would go I am with TauC

There will be no OW2 or OW3 until TauC is out of his system

Then my thoughts are let him get reality.

It bites eventually

At some stage XWH will find a gf. This is different to an OW.

If you want XWH in your life then it's catching the right moment when you both can repair your R.

V