Personally, I don't think it's genetic. I think it's as close to "choice" as possible. The age old question of nature vs. nurture plays a part.
My best guess is that it's nurture. i.e. The family dynamics, how they learn to cope, etc. I don't think you have to worry about your kids. They're half you, after all
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
