Hi Pink. I had a big smile when I read about the Visa !!!!!!! My S20 is studying microbiology but has taken a year off after bad results
I'm glad you looked up the hospital on the web Did you see my warehouses ?
I've read Sottos post and I think it really hits the nail on the head. The MLC of your H is incredibly hard to deal with and while your not in limbo on the legal side , it does seem that your are in limbo re your feelings
I think the only thing you can do is to stick to your boundaries and wait until your heart truly decides what it wants
I still believe that your H will emerge from the fog one day
