I am still reeling from the it is not my job to provide for you comment...it hits me in my pride..foolish I know...but I am proud that when he tossed us away I was able to dust myself off and get a job.. work around the kids schedule and be able to get them and not disrupt much of their already stressed little hearts... I put them to bed everynight with thumb wars and tickle wars...then log in and work some more. Oh well off to see sisters hopefully it can cheer me up then IC afterwards..def needed