Well my wife moved 500 miles away from my 17d and I to live with her mother. She quit a good job making good money and is unemployed. I have not contacted her but she has been texting me. She initiates all interaction. She tries to start arguments with me. I try hard not to get sucked into an argument. I know that she is not happy up there. She hates the cold and really doesn't have a lot of friends up there. I will be sending her a christmas gift. a video of her father that passed away that triggered all of this mess. I want her to know that I still care but I am leaving her alone. I had a woman the other day tell me Don't give up because I was that woman. She had a best friend to pass away and she lost it. Moved out and left her husband. She said the Holy spirit is gonna whisper in her ear, "What are you doing? You have a husband and kids that love you." I hope that happens and I have faith that it will.