Hey Vise, You are not alone in this. For all of us, the unthinkable and unexpected has happened in our marriages. No one is ever prepared for this and it is easy to get depressed if you over think it. I know exactly what you feel right now as the same thoughts go through my head daily. Being dumped is brutal at any age. It is even worse when the cold rejection comes from someone you are still in love with. Try to get out. Go shopping. Take a hike. Join a gym. Go to places where there are people to interact with. Keep reading other post here. There is a common theme throughout. Detach, detach, detach. Incredibly difficult, but it needs to be done. As strong as I feel some days, I know I am still very early in the process. It does not take much to set me back to square one. Keep reading and posting and remember that you are not alone.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long
