Hi Live, I am sorry that you find yourself here, but welcome.
You have been given some great starter advice from others. Right now your h is giving you the "nice guy" act, don't be drawn in by it, at the end of the day he will do what is best for him and no one else, its hard to imagine right now I know.
If you are sleeping and being intimate with your h to keep him, it wont work. They have the ability to detach and separate, he will not be feeling anything other than comfortable in familiar surrounding. I don't mean to sound negative, I just don't want you to fall into a false sense of security and belief that he will change his mind about leaving you anytime soon.
Please make sure you are financially safe as its likely he will start to spend, debts are common with a MLC'er. They feel they deserve x y z and justify the spend to themselves.
My advice is to read as much as you can about MLC as knowledge will help you through this, it will also give you an insight as to what your h may do and say, which takes the unexpected out of this already challenging situation that you are in. Read others threads and post on them to draw people to your thread, everyone is here to help, listen and support, its a great community to be a part of.
