GB - w does have issues relating to her childhood and her sexual tendencies. I think she was also promiscuous at university and had many partners most one night stands. Probably 30+. She has had body image problems since childhood, she was quite chubby as a teenager and always thinks she is overweight.
Most of this probably stems from lack of self worth, self esteem from the sex abuse.
Her focus at the moment is on her Father. She loves him, wants the best for him.
This morning her birthday, I took the boys into her room with a cup of tea and presents and cards from the boys and one present and card from me. She had her big present last week.
She opens my card - thanked me and said it was 'nice' - I had no expectations so it's ok.
This morning we are going to the gym as a family, then having family swim time in the pool with W and I maybe in the Jacuzzi for a time. Then a birthday lunch as a family in the gym
At 3 W is having a pedicure and in the evening W is going out with her best GFs.
She should have a nice day.
Tomorrow we are going to see Star Wars as a family - 3D version in the best seats - should be fun.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
