What frusturates me is that when I used Zues advise, or in the past after pouring my heart out , he responds with no longer then 6 word sentences with respnses that sound like he is using condescending validation statements like .."I hear you". "We are both hurting" "I am sorry too". But they are shallow and say nothing..except maybe he is trying to avoid fighting. I have been stonewalled for a very long time.
I know it could be worse. Many of you are dealing with cruel and vicious comments. I at least do not have that to listen to. I feel like making the cruel and vicious comments. (I have only done so in my mind)
Last edited by JulieH; 12/19/1512:36 AM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
