Welcome to the forum Katie, Reading accounts by others about their situation, progress/lack of progress and posting on your own and other poeople's threads will definitely help you to make decisions on what path to take in the quest to improve your relationship. Probably the first step is to decide what obvious things you are doing now that aren't working and do the 180 U turns to do the opposite. Many of us have anger and resentment problems that hamper our progress and others perhaps nag too much etc. Also think about your and Hs love languages. Are you communicating your feelings in a way that he can understand. Add your LLs to the Love Language survey thread and Aquarian will update her graphs. Most of all keep coming back to this forum and post your vents and worries and you will get plenty of encouragement from both the HD and LD points of view. SD
