yes all the books and links really do help
and now its just time it takes a lot of time
for us to heal and while we are healing , we will see what direction it all unfolds
sometimes they return
but we do this work for us..to get better
good that you are taking care of yourself
know that it gets better
I used to think I wanted my xh back more than anything
I never thought I would get over him
but I did and we all do
either way, we are ok
and you will read it on the boards over and over than the LBS is the one who comes out ok and most of thime even better than b4


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow