A long day being dad taxi for the kids. W went to work then to see her mum, sister and Dad.
She will be back in a couple of hours. FIL is stable in hospital but the prognosis is very poor. W and family just want to get him home for Xmas as it will be his last.
It's going to be stressful for all especially W.
I went to an IC session earlier today. She is also a qualified sex therapist. I told her of my discoveries of w's sex toys and bondage gear and her experimenting with anal sex toys. also I told IC about the sex abuse W suffered as a child. IC said there is correlation between the two. We ran out of time and will explore the theories next time.
As for me, I am v v tired after an exhausting roller coaster week. Too many late nights galling last weekend, following by sex toy discoveries and me spinning, followed by W's fathers deterioration plus the stress of Xmas.
In the cold light of day W will not initiate the next R talk until after FILs future is determined one way or the other. That gives me anything between 3 and 10 weeks to work on me.
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