Is it wrong to expect someone to be nice to us in exchange for being nice to them?

Codependent, enabling and conflict avoiding...definitely all describe me.

I can't help but feel bad. Not towards you, or anyone here, just in general. I feel like a loser.

I wasn't always like this.

I have to step away from the keyboard now...I'm losing control. Thank you for responding everyone. I'll be back for more punishment soon.


Last edited by Bfice3; 12/18/15 07:58 PM.
Me:41 - LBH in apt
W:39 - WW in home
Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42
M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15
(PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)