Getting yourself out there, laid wide open, so that you can get to know you....
The "you" that you have lost over the years, not the "you" that was suffocated throughout the Marriage. The bills, the kids, the Wife, the Pope, whatever the reason...
You probably haven't been "you" in quite some time now if you are completely honest with yourself.
And that is what this DB process is about.
Finding out who you are, at your core, and becoming a better version of yourself. Dropping the behavioral patterns that plague a relationship, finding out how to love, and how to receive love, how to listen, to talk within the confines of a relationship.
And maybe, one day your spouse will turn around and look in your direction. And its about being who you want to be, when that happens.
I'm not against you B.....
Keep thinking on those question....they will help you....
